Interview with OnyxRaven

Editor's Notes | Apr 11, 2020
  1. How long have you been selling your used panties and what inspired you to begin?

    I’ve been selling since late November last year. It was something I had heard about a long time ago and was interested in, but I did not pursue it until I went down the Pinterest rabbit hole and found out about SP. A group of my friends and I were talking about doing it, I was the only one who went through with it. I started because I needed more income as a single mom and I also needed an outlet for all my pent up sexual energy. This has worked wonders for that much needed outlet!

    Have you ever done anything sexy outdoors?

    It’s harder for me to think of something I haven’t done outdoors! I’ve had sex all sorts of places outdoors: on the hood of a Camaro, in the bed of a pickup, against a barn, by a bonfire, in the ocean, at the drive-in, in the middle of a field, against a car in a parking lot, on a boat in the middle of a lake, camping, even on the roof of a building... which ended when the police showed up. I’ve skinny-dipped countless times, made out on horseback and in the woods. I like to be adventurous.

    Do you do any other type of adult work?

    Nope, what you see here is it.

    Who is your ideal buyer?

    I love the respectful gentleman who likes to get me hot while wearing for him. Someone who enjoys helping with the quality of their purchase. I love that connection with a buyer, it makes wearing so much fun! If they can make me laugh, all the better.

    After getting started selling, at what point did you decide that you were going to 'give it a real go' in the panty industry?

    I signed up on SP and ended up taking a break from it for about a month almost immediately. It didn’t feel real to me yet. It was frustrating with the initial flood of time wasters and such. I didn’t feel like it was serious at first. I decided to jump in again after the New Year and just went for it. When I started getting more contact with “real” buyers, it encouraged me to start expanding my page and items. I’m still trying to build my profile and items for sale to reach more buyers. I’m still new to this and love learning about kinks and how I can help accommodate new buyers. If there is something a buyer is interested in that I do not have listed, I love to hear about it and expand based on it.

    What do you like to do in your free time?

    I love the water, going anywhere close to the water. I find it so peaceful and it quiets my head, heart, and soul. I like reading, art, the outdoors (obviously), and gardening. My main past time for the last year has been a home remodel. I saved my current home from being demolished and have been renovating it since. I found I have a knack for demo and building. I love designing and doing home makeover projects of all sorts. It went from being a massive, overwhelming project, to being something I love to do and now I always look forward to the next project. I’ve even started doing projects in my friend’s homes as well.

    If you could have only 3 material things on a deserted island, what would you choose?

    I automatically think of survival items, not luxury items. So, flintstone, machete, and a volleyball so I could have a friend with me. I guess that’s one “luxury” item.

    What’s the first piece of advice you would give to a new seller on day one?

    Do not be discouraged and give up right away. Stick with it, the “real” ones are out there! I was so frustrated so quickly, but once I was more dedicated to it and learned to tell the difference between a buyer and a time-waster more quickly, things got better. Also, respect and value yourself. Don’t let anyone treat you poorly just for the sake of a sale!

    How does Scented Pansy compare to other panty platforms?

    After joining SP, I tried one other platform for panty selling. I could not stand the layout. It was not user friendly like SP. Also, the SP community seems more professional and kind.

    Anything on your mind that you wouldd like to express that was not addressed in the interview?

    I want to thank all the wonderful buyers. Because of you I stuck with this. I have met some absolutely incredible people and have even formed friendships. Thank you for all of your encouragement and for all of the kind words. You guys are amazing. As always, let me know if there is something I can do for you! I am still learning what my hard line is. I want to thank the sellers who have helped me along the way as well. From tips and suggestions, to warnings well heeded. Thanks for looking out!