Interview with lula
How long have you been selling your used panties and what inspired you to begin?

I began selling used panties in January 2019. For years, I had men telling me that I should get into this line of work and I brushed it off. I'm the type of person who takes cues from the universe and started noticing a theme popping up shortly before joining SP. What ultimately sealed the deal was a conversation with a friend. We were discussing how I needed to a new stream of income because being my mom's caretaker doesn't allow me to work a "real" job. She told me what she was doing on SP and I was sold... I took it as the supreme sign from the universe!

Do you do any other type of adult work?

My main gig, for the past 11 years, revolves around sexuality and empowering women through an in-home party plan setting. I am basically a mobile sex store! Joining SP has given me the confidence to pursue becoming a Pro Domme; something I've wanted to do for years (and what men thought I already did). I was told in a past life I was a popular man who organized orgies... it's as if things are coming full circle! *giggles*

What do you enjoy most about selling worn panties?

Money aside, this really is a connection business and I have truly enjoyed the bonds made with many of the gentlemen on here. They have awakened the erotic side of me that has been dormant for some time. I'm not just selling used panties... my goal is to give my clients an experience they won't forget! Each transaction pushes me in a new direction creatively.

Do you ever get requests that are too extreme for you?

When I first started, I swore anything associated with scat was a hard limit. The first pair of panties I sold, he requested skids. Ugh, right?! I almost passed, but he finally convinced me to give it a try. Look at me now... poop listings everywhere! I am always open to new ideas but do have a couple of limits I refuse to budge on. If there is a request I am unable to fulfill, I am happy to refer them to another reliable gal on here; without judgment.

Any of your friends or family know or is this a secret pursuit for you?

I don't care who knows at this point. My sister was the first person I told. Eventually, I shared with my mom... she was about to see me wear a dress for 4 days, after all, and would begin asking questions. She's not exactly proud but respects the hustle. A few of my cousins, my closest friends and business associates, and a handful of clients know what I am up to. Zero shame and transparent AF.

What do you do for fun in your spare time?

I make custom wood signs, so you can usually find me in the garage cutting wood or on the computer creating new designs. During the holiday season, I do a lot of local craft shows. Other things I enjoy include: Snapchatting, taking naps, being sarcastic, taking road trips, giving my sister's cat the middle finger, having staring contests with my neighbor's wife, going to concerts, taking a walk around the block, and going to lunch with friends.

What do you think contributes most to your success in this business?

That's hard to say. I've been told by many gentlemen that my audacious honesty is refreshing, and they find me to be the easiest person to chat with. I also realize I'm not everyone's cup of tea... and that's ok. I rarely make first contact with a buyer and if I do it's because I found something intriguing in their bio. You will never catch me sending the "check out my shop" or "what can I make for you" messages. I am very pro-buyer and try to look at things from their perspective.

What’s the best advice you could give to new sellers?

My mantra: I am not for everyone and everyone is not for me. Be patient. Be honest. Be ethical. Believe in what you bring to the table. Don't underestimate your worth. Understand what works for one seller may not work for you. It's ok to be inspired by other sellers, but don't be a copycat. Establish your own identity. Have an open mind. It's ok to take a mental health day or two. Have fun with it.

How does Scented Pansy compare to other panty selling sites?

I would not know.

Anything on your mind that you'd like to express that wasn't addressed in the interview?

I will save my thoughts for an article, perhaps ;)