Interview with Desiree Wilde

Editor's Notes | Jul 29, 2020
  1. How long have you been selling your used panties and what inspired you to begin?

    I've sold my smutty wears for 2 and a half years. I got started because I wanted to be a part of this community. I've always had a desire to be in the adult entertainment world. However, battling societal point of views and norms was how I lived my life, until I turned 30. And that's when I decided that I no longer give a damn! I've never been more proud of myself for making that choice.

    Have you ever done anything sexy outdoors?

    In my younger days, I was very much into outdoor/ public play. The excitement of the freedom of being outdoors and of getting caught really gets me wet!

    Do you do any other type of adult work?

    I have other lines of work related to the adult industry. But panty selling, any selling of items I wear, is really where my fetish drive is. I have other hopes and dreams and ways I want to expand too. But right now, wearables is my focus

    Who is your ideal buyer?

    My ideal buyer is kind, respectful, someone who wants to connect with me as a person. My perfect buyer is communicative on their wants and needs. They are detailed in their requests, so that we both can discuss and decide if we are a match. My ideal buyer sticks around and becomes a repeat buyer. We become friends.

    After getting started selling, at what point did you decide that you were going to 'give it a real go' in the panty industry?

    I didn't get serious about my business and my brand until May of 2020. I lost my job, like so many others. So I decided to get serious and dedicated to my work here. And it's really paid off, in many ways.

    What do you like to do in your free time?

    I love to travel, and move. I was born in Germany and lived there most of my childhood. In my life I've lived in 2 countries and 7 states. I have been to all 48 of the continental United States. I hope to finish my tour by visiting Hawaii and Alaska within the next few years.

    If you could have only 3 material things on a deserted island, what would you choose?

    Chocolate- because Duh!, my strapless strap-on so no matter who I bump into Im sure to have a fantastic time, and my cell phone so I can share my kinky slutty adventures with the world!

    What’s the first piece of advice you would give to a new seller on day one?

    Network!!! Social selling depends on network marketing!! Get out there. Get seen. Don't be afraid to reach out amd say hello!! You can be polite and let buyers know you are available without hounding for a sale. Be kind, be human, be respectful- This is what helped me the most!

    How does Scented Pansy compare to other panty selling sites?

    I haven't been active on any other platforms in over 2 years. Because to me, SP is the best. I've had the most success, my time isn't wasted by countless dead-end convos, and for the most part, buyers here are the most respectful of their SW's on this platform.

    10. Anything on your mind that you'd like to express that wasn't addressed in the interview?

    Anything on your mind that you wouldd like to express that was not addressed in the interview?

    Mostly, I want to express my gratitude. To the admins and creators of SP: thank you for creating and moderating this safe space so we can all explore our sexuality more deeply.
    To my fellow sellers: Thank you. For everything. The community we have built as a support system for each other, the teams we work with to help protect eachother, the collaborations to help each other succeed. This community has accepted, defended, and at times called me out for my own problematic behavior. And I thank you from the bottom of my heart. You have accepted me and helped me grow as a human in ways I never thought possible. You all have a special place in my heart and I will always do my part to be that person for you also.
    And lastly, but by far not the least-
    Thank you, buying community. You have helped me become a woman I never knew existed. You have helped me succeed when I thought I was worthless. You have shown me the beauty of myself, when I couldn't. You except absolutely everything about me, and that is life changing.
    This whole career move for me was one I knew I was destined to make. I didnt know why, and I still get so lost as I navigate it all. But because of every single one of you, I'm making my dreams, on every level, my reality. And I will never be able to share in words just exactly what that means to me. Thank you.
    Xoxo, Desi