Interview with Carmen's Closet

Editor's Notes | Apr 19, 2020
  1. How long have you been selling your used panties and what inspired you to begin?

    I have been selling since 2018, shortly after a close friend of mine confided in me that she had discovered a newfound sense of confidence by selling on Scented Pansy. At first the idea of selling sexy products and services sounded foreign and the tiniest bit scary to me, but after about a month of deliberating, I made my own account! It felt like I opened the door to a new and exciting world I could never have even imagined!

    I was instantly hooked.

    I could finally be my kinky, sex positive self in a community of truly open minded people :)

    When I think back to my early days on SP, I laugh at how reserved and timid I was! I only offered panties and topless pics and nothing else. Whereas now I offer everything from bathroom videos to sextapes! Oh, how the times change! :)

    Have you ever done anything sexy outdoors?

    Oh, plenty of times! Way back in my freshman year of college, my boyfriend and I would fuck on the hood of his car in my parent's front driveway! The risk of getting caught felt so invigorating!

    Another time, it was snowing and my friend and I went on a walk in the winter wonderland outside. It started with a snowball fight, and then all of a sudden she tackled me down onto a pile of snow and started making out with me. Let's just say that things got hot enough that I didn't mind being nude in the cold ;)

    Do you do any other type of adult work?

    Well, Scented Pansy is by far my main platform in the adult industry, but I've dabbled on other sites like PornHub and ManyVids as Carmen Crasiny. I also have a small following on Reddit on my Carmen's Closet account!

    Who is your ideal buyer?

    The most important things to me are not what fetish someone has, or how much they have in the bank. What truly matters is how a buyer treats sellers. All buyers should be respectful of sellers' time and should also understand that we can't give away content for free. Those are just basic, understood agreements in the buyer/seller relationship.

    One other thing that helps buyers avoid another common faux pas is to know ahead of time what you're interested in. If it's your first time talking to a sex worker, please have an idea of what you're looking for. That's the easiest way to avoid being labeled a "time-waster" by other sellers. I often find that to be an overused and unnecessarily harsh term for some that get called that. The only time I consider someone a time waster is if they repeatedly reach out to try to get free content or if they regularly ghost as soon as I ask specific questions about what they like.

    Lastly, buyers should understand that I'm just a person too. Don't feel awkward of shy with me, even if you're new to the site! I love popping a new buyer's cherry ;)

    After getting started selling, at what point did you decide that you were going to 'give it a real go' in the panty industry?

    Oh gosh, I would say that after about two or three months of selling semi-regularly, I decided that I wanted to take things seriously. I decided to turn my work on SP into a commitment in my every day life. I doubled down on the effort I put into my profile and listings, and I have to say that I am quite happy with the results so far! :)

    I have found such a sense of pride and accomplishment with my sex work on Scented Pansy and beyond. I love what I do, and I am grateful for so many of the people I have met along the way!

    What’s the first piece of advice you would give to a new seller on day one?

    First off, I'd like the new sellers out there to know that you can message me on SP or Kik to ask any and all questions you have regarding sex work/panty selling/etc!

    My blanket advice to all newcomers, sellers and buyers alike, is that you must keep an open and accepting mind to all the lovely, kinky things you see on SP! This sounds like a pretty obvious thing to say on a fetish site, but it's really the key to connecting with other people here. There's no room for judgment in this community.

    Anything on your mind that you would like to express that was not addressed in the interview?

    Yes, actually! I have been organizing a fundraiser for Covid-19 Relief that I am quite excited about! I got 10 sellers together to create a mass Google Drive of 3 hours and 14 minutes of videos and 132 photos! We're asking for a $90+ donation in return for the Google Drive link! There is also a tier with 4 sellers and 1 hour and 31 minutes of videos and 74 photos worth a $60+ donation! If you're on a strict budget, you should consider donation $20+ to receive my folder of 31 minutes of videos and 64 photos, or even just $2/each for my individual nudes!

    Donate to a good cause and receive porn from 10 sexy women in return! I can't think of a better trade off! :) <3

    Please consider donating to this direct link - https://nafcclinics.networkforgood.com/projects/89438-nafc-donations-2020 , then send me the confirmation email, and you'll receive the Google Drive link!

    Thank you to those who have helped us raise $245 so far!! <3