You may have the urge to feel good sexually, but you don't want any penetration inside. During the pandemic, the safe and the hands you can trust are only yours. Whether you are not in the mood, you have a UTI, or you are on your periods, there are many other ways you and your partner can enjoy without going the old school way of intercourse. Many people won't get an orgasm by penetration alone. The most important thing is to get various ideas into which to stimulate the clitoris into your sex journey. Being determined to know adventurous styles and things that bring clit stimulation will bless your heart and expose you to possibilities. This article discusses some of the ways to get started to get orgasm.

Masturbating in other partner presence

A relationship expert and sexologist, Dr. Carlen Costa from Canada, says instead of taking your partner as an object responsible for getting you orgasm, you should change and be accountable for your orgasm. Masturbating when the other partner is present is a good way of owning your orgasm. You can opt to tell your partner in advance or let them come home and get you masturbating on the sofa. D.r Carlen emphasizes insisting on the no touching rule even if you feel the urge of wanting them to finish what you started. By doing so, things get hot experiences and better. Especially spending an afternoon perusing dirty panties on Scented Pansy.

Use of sex toys

Sex toys have been there since our mother's era. Marin advises getting DAME products like EVA, which stimulates the clit with minimum effort. Kait, a sexual reproductive educator, is a fan of sex toys like G-spot toys, We-Vibe Touch, and ON Arousal oil that eases getting aroused. Pjur, a silicone-based lube is good for fingering, oral sex, and sex. Sex toys also help complete the process of draft sex. When one hears the sound of other people having sex and gets aroused and rubs himself or uses the toys is what is referred to as draft sex. The amount of fluid a woman produces does not show how aroused she is as stress and dehydration due to medication also affect the wetness.

Stimulating directly

Oral sex is always the number one way of achieving orgasm, but that is not always the case. This does not mean you stop your partner when they want to go down because this is one of the heavenly experiences. Most women are alert when they have someone in between their legs and worry about how they taste and smell. Applying pressure and light touching on this sensitive spot will help achieve orgasm. But Dr.Carlen encourages exploring the whole vagina, including the vulva and labia. After the clit, the vulva is the second in having the most nerve endings.

Dirty chat

Ignoring that the brain is the largest sex organ, you will be doing a disservice to yourself. It is possible to get an orgasm by just having dirty talk without penetration. You don't have to throw the dirties line to your partner as it might come out weird or unauthentic. Whispering  something  like "I like it when……", babe is on my way." If you feel a bit shy, you can test the waters by sexting your partner.

Breast orgasm

We are very attentive to how the breasts look. We sometimes forget that these babies are not only beautiful but very good at orgasm. According to Dr. Carlen, breasts enlarge upto 25% when aroused, and the color changes. When our partner massage, lick, or tap in a rhythm the breasts, it brings the same exciting feeling to our brain as the vaginal and clit stimulation.

In conclusion, getting an orgasm is one of the best feelings you can achieve on this planet. If you want to have this experience and don't want the penetration, you need to worry less. Masturbation, breast orgasm, direct stimulation, dirty talk, sex toys, and draft sex are techniques to help us get orgasm.