Selling Used Panties As A Newbie
Fears and Concerns
I’m a newish seller. I sold on other sites before and on my own and joining a site like this makes me feel much safer. I don’t have reviews or sales on this site yet due to how new I am and that brings up some fears and concerns. Here are my thoughts on that.
As a newbie, I get anxious to make a sale and get up my reviews, but why? What are my intentions?
Of course, I want to make money, but I also want to make connections. Not just with buyers but with other sellers, too.
Patience is key. Bonding with sellers is key and learning who is out there just for a free treat is key, as well.
Also, bonding with sellers and learning who is scamming buyers is key.
I have joined several communities to get to know other sellers. I think supporting one another is so important and it helps to have a strong group that backs you up when something goes awry.
I love selling used panties. I love how it makes me feel and how it makes others feel and I have to keep in mind that’s why I started doing this. If I just wanted to do this solely to make money, I could find other ways to do that, but that’s not my number one motivation to sell used panties.
Now as a newish member, should I put myself out there like crazy? Yes, but I think it’s important for me to stick to what I am comfortable with and love to do. What makes me feel sexy and sensual.
I am not into certain things, but that doesn’t mean I won’t get noticed. I had that fear in the beginning, but then I started to think that if I do things just to get noticed, the fun is going to be sucked right out of this for me and I am here because I love it!
If you are new, do what you want! Do what makes you feel good! That’s what this is all about! As sex workers, we should be doing this because we enjoy it first and because we want to make money second. We should support one another, help one another and not be automatically suspicious that someone is getting more buyers than we are. When the focus is on the sales only, it makes us greedy and makes our mission less personal.
I am not into manipulation, playing games, or scamming people. It does nothing for me. I don’t get off on it, I don’t feel good about it, and I wouldn’t be able to sleep at night if I did it. I want personal connection. I want a confidence boost and to feel sexy and share that with people and that’s why I do this. When those desires fail to pan out, that’s when I move away from this business and onto something else.
Another thing is body image. I am concerned if I don’t look a certain way, I won’t get attention and that’s another reason I joined SP. This community has every type of body you could imagine, and I love that. I am not the only woman with my body type sprinkled into a sea of bodies where I have no chance. Every woman is beautiful, and no body type is off-limits. I can feel confident to post pictures without worrying someone is going to judge me or not like my body type and that helps me with my journey of confidence and empowerment.
Above all, I have to remember to tell myself a few things:
- Stay true to who you are.
- Do what you like, what you make you feels good.
- If you don’t want to do something, say no. You don’t owe anyone an explanation.
- Be honest and be kind, but always be genuine.
** Also see SP's Guide to Selling Used Panties